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What a girl needs most is love. What a guy needs
most is respect. The most important thing for a girl
is her heart. For a guy its his ego.
Give your man his own time and space. Let him
have his time for his friends, sports, family, self,
and God. The relationship will grow old quickly if
lagi kayong magkasama . Give him time to miss
you and you’ll see how he will love you more. If the
guy naman is obsessed and just wants to be with
you all the time, tell him you cant respect
a "puppy" for long.
Do things differently anytime. Para kahit matagal
na kayo, there is always something fresh and new.
Variety is the spice of life. Exciting baga?
Discover something you both like to do and enjoy
it TWOgether. Doon naman sa mga bagay na
magkaiba ang hilig nyo, compliment each other by
learning about it kahit konti. If you love someone,
yung effort nyo to try will go a looooong way to
understanding him later pag may disagreement
Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny noh?
Maybe, but its very powerful. Pag may takot sa
Diyos ang boyfriend mo, kampante ka na di ka nya
lolokohin, because he knows God sees everything
he does in secret. Ikaw na ang magkusa that
before you part after a date, with hold hands and
eyes closed, pray to God to bless you two. Believe
me it’s effective.
Kailanman, di corny ang magdasal.
Believe in "Magic" Kahit di minsan practical o
walang logical na dahilan, o matrabaho, o sounds
crazy sa iba, do sweet little things for the one you
love kahit magmukha ka ng timang. The memories
will be fun to recall later in life. The corniest song
o gift o letter ang laging kabog!
True love brings out the best in each other. Find
something good in your boyfriend and nurture it,
encourage it and syempre, ENJOY it.
It’s healthy to fight . Doon nyo lang maaayos ang
mga differences nyo at natetest ang tatag ng
relationship. Doon mo rin sya makikilala ng
mabuti. Its called test of fire. Di mahalaga how
dalas you fight. What matters is how often you
Mas nakakatakot yung relasyong sobrang perfect
at laging masaya. One big fight and that’s it! And
diba mas kilig yung malambing na… "uy, bati na
But don’t overdo it. Kakapagod naman din na lagi
na lang manuyo o magsori . Choose the battles na
papatulan mo. The little issues, palampasin na.
Don’t sweat the small stuff.
Daraan sa iba’t-ibang stages ang love especially
pag matagal na kayo. Grow with it. Don’t expect
him to be like nung una. ‘Coz like a student, di na
ituturo sa grade 6 yung lessons na pang-grade 2.
Change WILL happen… you both will change and
your love WILL change too. It’s up to you na lang if
the change will be for the better or for the worse.
Life is about growth. Grow with it.
When break up comes and it’s time to say
goodbye, don’t doubt the love just because it didn’t
last. May mga bagay sa buhay na di man
nagtatagal, it doesn’t mean di na ito totoo. Some
good things are just never meant to last forever.
Okay lang yon. Bless the parting and move on.
Expect tears, sorrow, sleepless nights and pain.
Ika nga "it’s when you hurt the worse that you love
the MOST." Kung di ka willing masaktan, wag ka
na lang magmahal.
Life is a balance. And love is both holding on and
letting go. Know when to fight for your man and
when to let him go. God will guide you kung anong
dapat gawin sa kung anong sitwasyon. So dapat
mataas ang signal ng langit sa cellfone ng puso
mo to know His wisdom.